A Resource for Spiritual Directors & Companions

May 2026

Volume 20

Issue 2

We Light the Way, Together

by Rev. SeiFu Anil Singh-Molares

In our daily work and in our own hearts, we return repeatedly to the gentle light. As we settle into our bodies. And feel the ground beneath our feet. As we soften into the rhythms of our breath. Then we feel the simple invitation: the light that’s already present, filling our rooms, creating a subtle glow behind closed eyelids as we meditate, and revealing a warm presence that asks nothing, and yet offers everything. We breathe it in without effort. We let it flow outward through us, touching what needs to be felt. We rest in the silence, and ponder: “I am held in light… I am a bearer of light.”

Effortlessly.  Just a gentle homecoming to what we already know to be true.

The image of light has accompanied us across traditions and across time. In the Vimalakirti Sutra we encounter it as the Inexhaustible Lamp: one small flame that kindles a hundred thousand others, without its own light being diminished in the process. Revealing that the more we share, the more we all become.

In the Jewish tradition, light is the first creative act, “Let there be light,” and the Ner Tamid, or the eternal flame, burns in every synagogue as a living reminder that Divine presence can never be extinguished. The Torah itself is called light, and the human soul becomes “the lamp of the Lord.”

Jesus, forthright as always, declares, “I am the light of the world,” but then turns to all of us and says, “You are the light of the world.” The light is not only above us or beyond us; it moves in us and  through us, into every shadowed place.

The natural world reminds us that this is no mere metaphor. Every green leaf is indeed a quiet solar wonder, transforming sunlight into the substance of life itself: trees, breaths, food, and community. And for those of us who walk as spiritual independents, light speaks in its own universal tongue: through a sudden flash of insight, one that awakens the inner clarity of simply listening to our own lives.

One light. Many lights. None diminished. All of us growing brighter together.

This is the particular blessing of spiritual companionship: it never goes just one-way. Every time we sit with another soul, listening silently, witnessing serenely, and trusting the slow unfolding, we ourselves are companioned. The same gentle light that flows through us flows back into the hidden rooms of our own hearts. We are healed as we help heal. We are found as we help others find their way. We are loved as we become love for someone else.

The lantern passed hand to hand, heart to heart, lights both ways.

Our wise elders and companions on this path have spent a lifetime gently reminding us of this truth. Real companionship begins with the courage to bring our whole selves into the light, shadows and all. An undivided life is not about perfection. It is about integrity. It is no longer about waging war between our inner truth and our outer work.

This light does not belong to any single tradition, though it gladly translates and exchanges words and images. It is the simple, trustworthy presence of awareness itself. It meets us exactly where we are, tired or hopeful, confident or tender, full of questions, or simply full of longing, and asks only that we pause long enough to truly see it.

So, my longing for all of us who are privileged to do this sacred, sometimes weary, yet always tender work:

May we carry this light gently, both as we receive, and as we give. May we trust that the more we share it, the more there will be for us all. And when we forget, as we sometimes do, may some companion, perhaps the very one reading this, remind us, in a look, or a silence, or a perfectly timed question, that the light is always here.

For all of us, together.

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“The lantern passed hand
to hand, heart to heart,
lights both ways.”

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In Your Light

by Jalaluddin Rumi

In your light I learn how to love.
In your beauty, how to make poems.
You dance inside my chest
where no-one sees you,
but sometimes I do,
and that sight becomes this art.

Drumsound rises on the air,
its throb, my heart.
A voice inside the beat says,
“I know you’re tired,
but come. This is the way.”

Jalaluddin Rumi (commonly known as Rumi) was a Sufi mystic, poet, and founder of the Islamic brotherhood known as the Mevlevi Order. His family hailed from Balkh. Rumi is an influential figure in Sufism, and his thought and works loom large both in Persian literature and mystic poetry in general. Today, his translated works are enjoyed all over the world.

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Case 39 of the Gateless Gate (Mumonkan):

“The light serenely shines over
the whole universe. Ignorant,
wise, and living creatures—all are in
my abode. When no thought arises,
the whole is fully revealed.”

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Publisher: Spiritual Directors International

Executive Director and Editor: Rev. Seifu Anil Singh-Molares

Production Supervisor: Matt Whitney

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